When Simple Isn't Worth It

I just finished wrapping Christmas presents for my children. Although we cut back on the number of gifts we’re giving this year, it still took longer than I had planned to wrap them.As I was folding paper, making labels and getting more tape, I was thinking, “How could I have made this simpler?” I had been at this project longer than I had planned and it was no longer joyful for me. It had become another project with a deadline (before the kids got home from school).When my mood shifted towards frustration, I made a conscious effort to find gratitude in the moment. I was thankful that my husband was there with me wrapping and taping and labeling. I was thankful that although there were fewer gifts, they were ones that they would use (socks, book lights, clothes) and that would nurture their creative passions (building, art and music).I had already simplified the wrapping (one roll of “Santa” paper and no bows).I had already reduced the number of gifts.I had already chosen to give gifts that were practical and purposeful.What else could I do to simplify even more? I thought about choosing to not wrap the “Santa” gifts and to instead, just put them in each of their large red bags as is. But I knew this wasn’t really a good idea because simplifying this way would mean compromising my family’s joy.Part of what makes Christmas day special for my husband is watching the kids wonder what’s inside the package, tear through the paper and then have wrapping paper ball fights after the gifts are open. Although I’m not fond of the paper ball fights, for him, this rapid series of events means a lot and I do not want to take away the joy he receives from it. I also know that the same events are joyful for my kids!   Ultimately, if simplifying means compromising the joy of others, then it’s just not worth it.So I’ve decided to be content with how we’ve already simplified the gifts this year. I’ve accepted that a few things fell to the wayside today since wrapping took longer than expected. But I know the time was well spent because others will be joyful because of it.So as you’re thinking about how to simplify your life and the lives of those you love, remember to consider the joys of others. Remember that what seems like a logical “cut” to you, might mean the world to another member of your family. If that’s the case, then this particular attempt at simple isn’t worth it.I’d love to hear what isn’t worth simplifying in your home-send me a note!Blessings,Lisa