The Tornado: Reflections after 25 Years
We each have significant dates that are permanently etched on the timelines of our lives. Some evoke joyful memories, like wedding days and birthdays. Others stir up sadness and sorrow like dates that loved ones passed on. Some bring up reminders of courage and bravery and others of fear and frustration.Today, August 28th, is one of the days that is deeply etched on the timeline of my life. At 3:30pm on this hot, humid day 25 years ago, the sky turned gray and the wind blew…Minutes later, after the tornado passed, the clouds parted and gave way to rays of sun and deep blue skies and life as thousands of us had known it was forever changed…As I spend time today thinking of the individuals who lost their lives that day and the thousands of people like myself who lost homes and possessions, I recall feelings of fear and sadness but I also have feelings of gratitude.I’m grateful that I survived the day, as did my family members.I’m grateful for the countless individuals who gave so willingly of their time, money and more to take care of my family and all of the others in our town who so desperately needed it.And I’m grateful for the insight I’ve continued to realize over the years from reflecting on this event.Had I only known back then how greatly that 8 seconds would impact the rest of my life…What I’m reflecting on today (and what I hope you take some time to also consider) is:
- Even with the greatest technology, you can’t always predict when the skies will change.
- Less things, more living… “Stuff” really is just “stuff.”
- When people offer to help, let them (and be grateful for it).
- Don’t wait. If you spend too much time trying to decide your way out, you’ll be stuck riding out the storm exactly where you are.
To Simplicity & Joy,Lisa